Category: Leadership

08.May.2013 |

Thoughts on Abortion – Taken from God Sex book

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Women who often recount their sexual pasts do so with laughter or regret; however, abortion remains the one thing that is too difficult to discuss even years later.

Several organizations, such as Planned Parenthood, note that immediately after the abortion it is common for women to experience anger, regret, guilt, sadness, or depression while some are relieved.

State-sanctioned counselors say that psychological problems appear low for those women who have had abortions, but this is due to the fact that these women have little desire to return to the doctor or clinic at which the abortion was performed; therefore, the gathered data is inadequate.

Overall, the hurt felt in the aftermath of an abortion is probably one of the deepest hurts a woman can feel. It is in epidemic proportions, and yet, abortion remains the champion of women’s rights. Why is that?

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18.Feb.2013 |

Virginity and Promise Rings

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I remember hearing of these a few years back and I cringed. I have a deep admiration for any girl or guy who keeps to their standards to stay pure until marriage.

I know though there are those whom target virgins. Their mission is to steal another’s virginity. It’s a game.

I don’t believe that virginity is something that one displays on her hand but rather it’s a decision on which one stands. Yes, one can advertise this decision by wearing a ring but I see this as setting oneself up as a target.

If we are going to wear such a ring it would be better on one whom has been through a trying relationship and yet they maintained their sexual standard. Mostly these rings though are placed on the hands of those yet to experience sexual trials. It’s as if we are sending a child to war with no preparation or protection.

If a girl chooses to wear a ring, then let it be out of maturity. Mostly though, I believe that many of these rings are at the bottom of a jewelry box while a girl’s heart is confused and troubled.

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13.Feb.2013 |

Feel Goods and Pain

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Society thinks that scripture is irrelevant and limiting in today’s world. Our natural reaction is to fight against boundaries, especially when we face pain or feel our individual freedom of choice is being threatened.

We all have times when we want to throw out verses that appear to limit our lives.

We tend to look for immediate gratification. Living a life determined for long term, rather than short term happiness though, carries a greater surety for success.

A person who is willing to live a life curbing one’s desire for immediate gratification will find greater freedom.

Therefore when we have options, look ahead in life and consider the result. Is my action a short term feel good that will damage me for a longer term?

A little restraint not only feels great but often sets us up for success.

(Isaiah 40:8 & 1 Peter 1:25)

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20.Dec.2012 |

Gifts, Money and Children????

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I love buying for my children, even now that they are adults.

Christmas time finds us spending more. It’s a season of giving. Giving and thankfulness though should continue all year. Therefore, how do we deal with the pressure of giving at Xmas?

1. Much of our spending is connected to our emotional wants and pleasing others. The feel good at the store leads to a feel bad when the bills come.

Think ahead. Will you have the resources to cover expenses incurred at Xmas?

2. Our children do not need all the wants on their Xmas list. Work out what you can afford and acquire these for Xmas.

Other wants can be talked through with the child. The child could save or work toward this desired gift. They can save their allowance towards it. This achievement makes the gift more worthwhile.

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10.Dec.2012 |

How Far is Too Far in Dating?

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Turn on the car engine and there’s a destination in mind. You want to go and you don’t want to stop. That’s sex.

The focus on the physical, although it feels so good, limits a relationship in other ways.

Without a wedding ring on the finger, the mystery in a relationship disappears. Growth is stunted. Disappointment rises.

In dating, many are looking for the keeper or the lasting relationship.

Therefore discover the other’s likes, dislikes and dreams. Watch their habits and treatment of people. These are the things that matter longterm.

Great sex can be learned but not all people discipline themselves in the give and take of relationships.

How far is too far? Would I do what I am doing with my date in front of others? Am I defending or hiding my behavior from others?

Overall sex is not a fulfillment of the missing element but rather it’s the expression of love found. It’s the celebration of the marriage commitment.
(Song of Solomon 8:12)

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