Excerpt from God Sex book:
Girls have been taught that modesty is a thing of the past: that they need to be independent and free of the need for a man. Funnily, the deepest desire of a girl’s heart is to be cared for and accepted by a man, but they are encouraged to not need care.
The identity of men as men is also confused in the midst of current opinions. Most young men are clueless as to how to be around a woman. They are ignorant because they have not been taught how to treat a woman. Most young men are told that women do not desire chivalry.
Both sexes are confused regarding the true needs of the other sex. Both sexes are probably too, embarrassed to express their heartfelt wants when it comes to chivalry. The reality is that God created men and women differently as two separate genders and each bring fulfillment to the other. When each accepts the God-given differences of the other sex and not just the sexual differences, relationships become much more satisfying.